Princess Kate has a 'secret code' when George, Charlotte and Louis are misbehaving

It's so simple it's genius

Prince Louis of Cambridge covers his mother Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge's mouth with his hand as they attend the Platinum Pageant on The Mall on June 5, 2022 in London, England.
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Like all mums, Princess Kate has to deal with both the joys and the challenges of having three young children.

But unlike all mums, the Princess of Wales often has to do her parenting on a large-scale public stage, so she needs some effective yet discreet strategies to make sure her children aren't "misbehaving" too much during an official royal function. And according to one royal author, Kate luckily has a great trick up her sleeve — and it involves one simple, fairly benign phrase.

"When Prince Louis misbehaved at the late Queen's Platinum Jubilee for example, by sticking his tongue out at this mother, Kate's reaction was praised by a team of expert commentators," Tom Quinn wrote in his book Gilded Youth, An Intimate History of Growing Up in the Royal Family (via Heart).

"She apparently used a secret code to calm the children, as she does on occasions — she simply says 'let's take a break.' But as a former staffer explained, the children know these few words carry far more weight than we might imagine."

While George and Charlotte have usually been very calm and smiley in public, Louis has been a bit more animated on occasion. As Tom mentioned, the Queen's Jubilee was a prime example: the then-four-year-old stole royal fans' hearts when he spent his time making funny faces, and even placing his hand on his mum's mouth so she would stop talking.

Kate and her husband Prince William are known to be incredibly hands-on parents. They do have help from nanny Maria Teresa Turrion Borrallo, but they also do their best to be involved in every aspect of their children's lives, such as school drop-off and pick-up.

Royal expert Jennie Bond has previously explained that Kate and William's down-to-earth parenting style has been inspired in part by Kate's own upbringing as a Middleton, while other experts have argued the couple's parenting style is reminiscent of Princess Diana's.

Iris Goldsztajn
Iris Goldsztajn is a celebrity and royal news writer for Marie Claire. As a London-based freelance journalist, she writes about wellness, relationships, pop culture, beauty and more for the likes of InStyle, Women's Health, Bustle, Stylist and Red. Aside from her quasi-personal investment in celebs' comings and goings, Iris is especially interested in debunking diet culture and destigmatising mental health struggles. Previously, she was the associate editor for Her Campus, where she oversaw the style and beauty news sections, as well as producing gift guides, personal essays and celebrity interviews. There, she worked remotely from Los Angeles, after returning from a three-month stint as an editorial intern for Cosmopolitan.com in New York. As an undergraduate at the University of California, Los Angeles, she interned at goop and C California Style and served as Her Campus' national style and LGBTQ+ editor. Iris was born and raised in France by a French father and an English mother. Her Spotify Wrapped is riddled with country music and One Direction, and she can typically be found eating her body weight in cheap chocolate.