The Big Debate: Mistresses

We want you opinion: Can the other woman ever be forgiven?

Have you read Bibi Lynch's account of being a mistress in this month's Marie Claire?

Once a firm believer that all women who selpt with married men were cold, calculating cheats, she tells how she became one of them, much to her own surprise.

Now we want to know your views. Do you identify with Bibi? Have you ever had an affair, and what were your experiences? Can a mistress ever be forgiven?

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