Apparently, this will be the biggest regret of your life
Agree?


Agree?
Some of the most common regrets we have include working too hard, losing touch with friends, turning down a dream job opportunity and not making time to travel.
But what is the one thing that most people would say is the biggest regret of their lives?
Psychologists at Cornell University have released a new study revealing that the biggest regret we have in our lives is 'failing our ideal selves'.
Rather than regretting the things we have done - 'why did I say that?' or 'I wish I had done this instead!' - our ultimate worry is that we haven't followed our dreams.
Professor of Psychology and lead author of the study, Tom Gilovich, said: 'When we evaluate our lives, we think about whether we’re heading toward our ideal selves, becoming the person we’d like to be.
'Those are the regrets that are going to stick with you, because they are what you look at through the windshield of life.
Marie Claire Newsletter
Celebrity news, beauty, fashion advice, and fascinating features, delivered straight to your inbox!
'The ‘ought’ regrets are potholes on the road. Those were problems, but now they’re behind you. To be sure, there are certain failures to live up to our ‘ought’ selves that are extremely painful and can haunt a person forever; so many great works of fiction draw upon precisely that fact.
'But for most people those types of regrets are far outnumbered by the ways in which they fall short of their ideal selves.'
So if you've been looking for the courage and motivation to get out there and turn your dreams into a reality - this is it.
Jadie Troy-Pryde is News Editor, covering celebrity and entertainment, royal, lifestyle and viral news. Before joining the team in 2018 as the Lifestyle and Social Media Editor, she worked at a number of women’s fashion and lifestyle titles including Grazia, Women’s Health and Stylist, and now heads the Marie Claire UK news desk.
-
5 chic and easy spring outfits I'll be wearing on repeat
Getting ready will be a breeze
By Jazzria Harris
-
I'm a Health Editor and marathon runner who's tested nearly 1000 pairs - my definitive pick of the best running shoes for women
Don't be confused by the jargon - we've tried 100's of trainers and these are the ones worth investing in.
By Ally Head
-
This iconic 90’s scent was my first ‘grown-up’ perfume—and the coolest girls I know *still* wear it today
A true trailblazer of its time
By Rebecca Fearn