I found the most indulgent self love gifts to treat yourself to this Valentine’s Day
Because you deserve it

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and while it might be the perfect time to pick up some great gifts for her—or other loved ones in your life—it’s also important to show some love to yourself.
Self love gifts are extraordinarily underrated, in my opinion. There's no better time than Valentine’s Day to indulge in a luxurious self-care treat. Most of us would be hard-pressed to think of the last time we treated ourselves to something decadent, which I think needs to change.
From silky pyjamas to luxury skincare, these gifting picks are designed to make you feel cherished and adored. Plus you know these presents won’t go unused or unappreciated—because who knows your gifting tastes better than you do yourself?
Whether you’re keen to treat yourself to a little touch of luxury, a new piece of jewellery or a Valentine's-friendly outfit, we’ve got the perfect gifts from you to you. Keep scrolling to shop them for yourself.
Best self love gifts to treat yourself to
Vieve's Lip Dew in Rosa is long lasting, super nourishing and leaves a beautiful pink tint.
I am a huge fan of Fruity Booty lingerie and have become obsessed with the brand's chic yet wearable (and large cup size-friendly) styles. This pink mesh style is beyond gorgeous.
What makes an even better treat than a regular scented candle? A supersized one that's scented like a garden in bloom, of course. This massive candle will last ages and make a lovely addition to your decor.
If you want a truly indulgent treat, this is it. This preloved Tom Ford era Gucci bag comes with an authenticity guarantee, and it's at a brilliant price point.
A fresh interpretation of a sandalwood fragrance, this modern and unique perfume is the ultimate cool-girl scent for the season.
These Uggs have taken over MC HQ, coming in three colourways and still in stock. Now is a great time to invest.
Who needs matching couple outfits? This fun collaboration between Barc London and The Hoxton is the ultimate gift for you and your pet. Treat them to the cute mini knit and yourself to the matching jumper.
I own and adore this Westman Atelier blush stick myself. From the smooth, blendable formula to the heavy magnetic packaging that fastens with a satisfying 'click', it's truly a luxe treat.
Nothing will make you feel quite as good as a fresh set of lingerie, and the Boux Avenue Valentine's Day designs are both sophisticated and supportive.
Every Christmas and birthday, a Tatcha moisturiser finds its way onto my list. It's luxury skincare that really does work, so it's a self-gifting treat you won't regret.
I have been in love with this bag for months, so it only seems appropriate to treat myself to it this Valentine's Day. Both practical and unbeatably chic, it's a no-brainer investment.
Make your winding-down routine feel that bit more luxe thanks to Eve Lom's iconic cleanser. The smell alone will transport you to a serene spa, and the balm itself offers the slip required for an indulgent face massage.
Channel your inner Carrie Bradshaw with one of her favourite shoe brands. I can't get enough of these 70s boots, but if their heels make for the most gorgeous investment that you'll cherish forever.
Speaking of hydration, this Fresh sleeping mask will leave your skin plump and revitalised come morning.
Nothing says self love like a sex toy, and this one is discreet and powerful.
Not only does Bohomoon make some of the best sweat-proof jewellery that can be worn everyday, but it's also some of the most affordable. This is a piece you can keep for life that will never tarnish.
Supporting a small business and revamping your wardrobe? It's a win-win. These silk trousers are beautiful and high quality—and will rake in compliments.
Period pants aren't the most glamorous self-gift, but they're a wellness investment that will seriously improve that time of the month. I love this stylish pattern that will make you feel that bit more put-together, even if you suffer with painful cramps.
Sleeper pieces are at the top of my wishlist for this year. This navy blue set is absolutely beautiful, and a fantastic capsule wardrobe investment.
There's no better gift than a good hair day. This affordable Bellissima styler gives you everything you need for the perfect salon-worthy blow dry.
Luxurious pyjamas don't usually come cheap, so this matching set is perfect if you want to feel your best without spending a fortune.
Protect your and smooth your skin with this luxurious Charlotte Tilbury primer.
Take your favourite iced coffee everywhere with you in this pretty pink cup.
If you love sweet scents, the new Prada rhubarb perfume is for you. And how beautiful is the packaging?
If you have PCOS, this is a supplement you will thank yourself for investing in. It contributes to the regulation of hormonal activity, and it's been game-changing for many members of the MC UK team.
Lip products are my weakness and this lip mask is my new go-to if you want your lips to look and feel their very best.
This beautiful Burga phone case is perfect if your current one is due for an upgrade.
This shower oil is ridiculously luxurious considering the price tag, and it has the most gorgeous scent that will stick to your skin.
This dual use cream product adds the perfect flush. It's my makeup bag essential.
This rich eye cream is the ultimate self-care pick-me-up for dehydrated winter skin.
Nothing makes me quite as happy as cosy knitwear, so this sweet jumper is my idea of a perfect self-care gift. Plus, fair isle jumpers are right on trend at the moment.
Want to really treat yourself? This new Bvlgari fragrance is floral, luminous, fresh, and airy—the perfect new signature scent.
If you're a gin lover, this quirky ceramic and bottle set is a decadent treat.
Treat your hair to high-quality straighteners that keep your hair healthy and strong whilst styling.
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Valeza Bakolli is Marie Claire’s Junior Shopping Editor, and as such, she’s made it her mission to encourage people to shop mindfully and with purpose. In her role, she covers all things shopping - from thoroughly road testing the best fitness kit to keeping a finger on the pulse of what’s new in fashion and beauty. She dedicates hours of her time every day to scouring the online stores, finding the best products online so you don’t have to (from small and sustainable businesses wherever possible, of course).
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